Shining a light on Hidden Disability - Simeon’s Story
“When someone is positive and patient, I feel calmer and more capable.”
[Glenray, Bathurst, NSW]
Sometimes the biggest challenges are the one you don’t see, that’s what makes hidden disability so often misunderstood. They’re often tucked beneath the surface, affecting everyday life in way others might not notice. For Simeon who has chosen to share his story it was about breaking down assumptions, opening minds, and encouraging a little more kindness in the world.
When wearing a hidden disability sunflower, it’s to let people know you may need a bit of extra help and in Simeon’s case it could be asking for assistance at the supermarket or needing more time to process information. Sometimes Simeon struggles with focus or following instructions and that can make it hard to communicate. The Sunflower isn’t just a symbol. It’s a quiet way of saying “I’m doing my best, please be patient and that patience can make all the difference.”
‘I wish people understood how much their attitude matters. Being negative and rushing me really throws me off. When someone is positive and patient, I feel calmer and more capable.’ said Simeon
For Simeon, group situations, unfamiliar settings, or fast paced environments often bring added stress and unfortunately, there are moments of misunderstanding. “Some strangers don’t get it. They can be dismissive, or even rude. But I do my best to speak up and educate when I can. Everyone’s experience is different and invisible doesn’t mean imaginary” -Simeon
Growing up for Simeon, those misconceptions had a lasting impact. “I used to be bullied and teased about my disability, I felt isolated. It took time to open up even to my own family” But there have been moments of deep support and connection too. One of these moments is best described by Simeon – “One of my best memories is attending Mardi Gras. I was supported to be myself completely. Staff helped with travel, planning, everything. I felt safe and seen. I’ll never forget it.”
Simeon highlighted his hope for the future especially when schools, workplaces and communities step up. ‘Yes, I had a great experience at TAFE when I was studying hospitality. I was made to feel welcomed, I would like for others to provide more support, allowing additional time for interviews and learning of tasks. People to be more aware and understanding of the struggles we face’
Simeon’s message for what he would like others to know was very empowering - ‘I want to be treated equally, just because I have a disability doesn’t make me different from any other person. I don’t want people to be racist or discriminating towards me ‘treat others how you would want to be treated’
He’s notice a shift in awareness over the years and it brings hope “Yes, years ago it was different and we were pushed away for having a disability, now more people are aware and understanding that we do struggle with somethings.’ We have a hope for a more inclusive future.
Simeon’s advice for those newly diagnosed with a hidden Disability is very heartfelt – ‘Don’t be afraid that you are different, stand up for yourself as people are there for you. Remember you are a wonderful person and don’t let anyone treat you any different’
Simeon shared with us a reminder that not all disabilities are visible, but everyone deserves to been seen!
For further information or to pick up a lanyard email info@glenray.com.au or visit Glenray Head Office, 225 Howick St Bathurst.
